My hubby and I are alike where our shallowness comes in, which is important to me. We are both attractive & very attracted to one another
We love sports and going to games (doesn't really matter what kind: baseball, ftball, b-ball)
We love to be outdoors
We still talk to each other, even on long trips
However,
I workout, WAY more than he does
He's kind of a pussy, I'm kind of a ***** (which works out well)
He gives in, I don't give an inch (when it's something I'm passionate about)
He has a LOW pain tolerance, mine is pretty damn high for a girl
He likes to go out to eat and go to the movies, I like to party like there's no tomorrow
He's tidy and well dressed, I hate to clean and would rather wear a ball cap and jeans
He listens to country, I like rock, rap, 80's whatever
I like to hunt, fish and I love big trucks, He is a total city boy and wants a BMW
Not a fairtale, but I think some differences, especially personality differences are what makes things work. If my man was as hot tempered as I am, we would kill each other, instead he keeps a cool head and we get through stuff. He's also very forgiving. All I have to do is say that I'm sorry and acknowledge my mistakes and he's over it. Actually, I really have no idea why he loves me and is still w/ me, except that I have his baby now, but he was here to stay even before that. He's a great guy and I really don't like myself all that much. Sometimes (a lot) I wonder what the hell he's thinking. And before any of you guys say it, hotness doesn't matter. I think there was a quote somewhere on here the other day that said "No matter how hot she is, there is some guy out there that's tired of her shit!" Lol... I guess it's kind of like that.