I've had the love...I've had the husband..the white picket fence and all the crap that comes with it...........after spending some time with a group of people I got to witness just how unattracitve very desperate for a husband women truely are.........rather ugly IMO....

I have more married men at my disposal then I'd know what to do with.....ok can we say orgy ? actually it would be more like never mind............

what happens? do we fall out of love? does the romance die out and one or both parties just don't have the guts or the stamina to ignite it again....or do we get lazy and leave all the work to our partner?

When married I was never one to leave things boring....loved doning that corsette, stockings, garters...fixing up my hair and makeup....getting special treats like champagne, strawberries.....or another blonde (if I were so inclined)........

Even now...I want lust........that other L word doesn't exist in my vocabulary...well it does for my children...my family.......my dear sweet friends.........but when my need arises I take a lover...I don't go out looking for a "boyfriend"...or a "potential husband" no thanks..been there done that...

I take a lover.......I'll buy something new and sexy....I dont 'understand why women don't wear sexy things....it feeds my passion...adds to the anticipation...of what it so come........if he can keep up....I'll even keep him around for a while....everyone knows up front what the situation is........there's not getting emotionally involved....and many times a sweet friendship is made..........a few of my dearest friends currently in my life are just that...former lovers.......

I'll take a lover...who can take the brunt of my passions.....until he begs me to stop....someone with imagination, with passion, with fire.......

those filled w/ desperation for a husband, a mate....they can keep their vanilla men....their nasty attitudes....because while they are busy working at finding a mate.........

I'll take a lover........and will be showering him with my passion........