[WildTigerEyes7]

I just have to ask if any of you ladies are offended when you hear another female say "I don't want/like muscle...."

Constantly in the gym I hear women telling the trainers, "I don't want any muscle," or "I don't like muscles on women," or "I want to be soft and girlie..." (it always seems to happen while I am mid-lift or something lol)

First I have to turn my head to hide my laughter/disgust....but I can't help but feel somewhat insulted as well (oh well, at least I know I look better and will be decreasing bf% faster than any of those women).

But I even have a "friend" (that I work with) who wanted me to teach her how to work out. So I trained up @ her gym for 2 weeks showing her different exercises, etc. Well after ONLY ONE leg workout - she quit! She came into work the next day w/ "I'm never working out w/ you again, I told you that I DID NOT want any muscle, I only want to lose some weight, and now I can feel my leg muscle popping out!" (Keep in mind that she did very light weight despite the weight I was doing, and her main complaint was about the lunges that I made her do (w/o weights) b/c she thought they "made her leg musle pop out". OMG, I wanted to pull my hair out.

To this day, she still asks my advice - although she is NOT going to take it or even worse, will argue w/ me about it - WTF don't ask if you aren't going to listen. She constantly asks "so you WANT muscle?" Makes me want to knock her teeth out.....

Sorry I just had to vent. Does anyone else have this problem?

Tigs