[paramuscle]

I feel ya bro...............I have said in the past that if it wasn't for the whole hairy ass, pecker sucking thing..........I'd probably be geigh. I know this sounds insane to some but, I am on my third marriage and luckinly I have no children with the 2 former Mrs. Para's but, I thought the same way for along time and actually happened into this relationship by chance and it has worked out great for me. We have times when I want to split her skull open with a hammer, take 2 trash bags and a bag of lime and ..................anyway, the point is this.


Any time you have a dynamic relationship with two human beings you will inevitably have conflict. Even if it's your parents who most of us love, you best friend even.............given a long enough time line, every relationship will have problems. You feel like your better off alone and that is great brother............I think too many people in this world are co-dependent and rely on the other person to make THEMSELVES happy. You know the old story....my wife is pissed so I am pissed............

Anyway, the fact that you actually enjoy some solitude and that you are not scared of it means that you are a very emotionally healthy person and you should be happy. We should all be so lucky. The problem can arise if you stay that way for too long and you forget how to be with another person and I don't mean sexually. You have to find a happy balance and that is completely up to you to define because for each of us, it differs.

I say congrats brother, you don't have your emotions defined by another person and that is great.




~PM