Tink... your resolution is something that hits home with me hard and is something that so many women fall victim to!!!
Mental manipulation or a passive aggressive control is sometimes very hard to recognize in a relationship, however it is a form of emotional and mental abuse. Some will deny it exists and some will say otherwise... However you always need to remember that the only person who can control your mind is YOU! Your mental and emotional strength is yours and yours alone and NO one can take that away from you! Sometimes we give away our power without even knowing it!!! We allow others to walk all over us without saying a word, or we allow others to have the upper hand in a situation without arguing or we get so tired of arguing we feel it is just easier to give in...
You are a step ahead of the game!! You have already recognized that there is a problem and you have identified it! This is a big step!
Finding your inner strength is the most powerful thing you can do! Taking back your power, be it mental, emotional or physical is crucial!
This is actually why alot of women turn to weight training, kickboxing, working out in general.. it gives you a physical sense of power which in turn aids in the mental and emotional!
btw... spending time with your baby is one of the most wonderful things you can do.. there is nothing more special then you can give someone then your TIME! that alone in itself is a gift and your baby is a gift!
However... you also need YOU time, so getting the help and support you need and deserve is what is fair for you! Do not deny yourself enjoyment nor happiness or you will start resenting those close to you!
So i back ya 110% girl!!!
So take back your power! Make that decision in your mind and stick to it!
Whatever it is you need to do to find that strength, DO IT! Any help you need, we are here for you...
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