LOL tink knows about this stuff huh????? hehehe
Mine hit me about 3 months as well. There were times, that for no reason, i would just break down and cry. Or, i would get undressed to get in the shower, see my perfect skin had a few markings on it from the pregnancy and feel so icky. I was tired a lot, and worn out, my husband was deployed. Everything and i mean everything made me cry..lol. I felt so disgusting, i hated everything about myself. the only joy i found, was holding my baby girl in my arms. lol
For me, i think it was just something that went away. Probably around 8 months or so. I knew i had it, but didn't ever know what to do with it, so when iwas feeling down, i wou ld try to find so mething i enjoyed...something with my daughter, but at times, something like panting my toe nails, or finger nails, something to make you feel pretty. If you get the chance, you should go out and get like a pedicure at one of these times. For me anyways, it didn't seem to be there all the time.
Most important thing is to realize when you are going through one of this sad moments, or a moment were you are angry. Not that you would ever take it out on your child, but the baby will feed off of your emotions. I never believed when people said this, until i saw it happen in my situation and even now still when she is 4..lol. So, it would be best at these times, if it is available, put the baby down until you feel a bit better, or give him to daddy, ect... I think when the baby is there, and you are the only one available to him, it is helpful to remember, that you will only have that moment with your son one time. You will never gain that moment back. So cherish every single moment you have with him.
I hope this might have helped a bit??? LOL...if you need more specific ideas or situations ect..let me know..or PM me hun! Good luck!
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