I got a question....

[Voodoo]

Can you give me the truth on something? Do you prefer women who speak their minds or subserviant "yes" people?

[Tink]

Well...i know for me...i like a man who speaks his mind and is truthful, and i prefer my female friends the same way. If some one doesn't agree with some one, i want them to speak up and say why! Especially when it can lead to a good debate

[Jumbo]

people who speak their mind are better for sure......yes people are boring and when you want their opinion they're more likely to tell you what they think you want to hear rather then what they're really thinking or real opinion is.

[Voodoo]

I think I asked the question wrong.... I am really asking if guys would prefer their women to be quiet and almost subserviant? Or if the would rather have a woman that has no problem asserting herself/ opinion.

My hubby and I were discussing this and I wanted to see the view point of other men.

[Jumbo]

Originally Posted by VoodooItaliana

I think I asked the question wrong.... I am really asking if guys would prefer their women to be quiet and almost subserviant? Or if the would rather have a woman that has no problem asserting herself/ opinion.

My hubby and I were discussing this and I wanted to see the view point of other men.

i still stand by my point, a yes girl would be boring unless i was asking for a bj or something. I like an assertive independent women w/ her own views who's ready to battle to defend them, strong n fiesty........as long as its at a compromisable level and not concieted or self righteous.

Originally Posted by VoodooItaliana

I think I asked the question wrong.... I am really asking if guys would prefer their women to be quiet and almost subserviant? Or if the would rather have a woman that has no problem asserting herself/ opinion.

My hubby and I were discussing this and I wanted to see the view point of other men.

speak their mind for sure.. usually my buds who are looking for "yes" women aren't the sharpest guys, just good looking and want ez girl..... point of being in "love" is definately not to have someone who will be your servant or placed "lower" than you.

[Reverend Satan]

I like an opinionated, outspoken woman provided her opinions are educated ones. Too many people have a strong opinions and when they are questioned about how they reached that opinion they don't know.

I like a woman who is intelligent and assertive but smart enough to know she can never beat me in a debate.

[Voodoo]

excellent guys! thanks for the responses.

[SoreArms]

I only want them to subserviant in bed, I'm a dom

I tire easy of weak minded women and wind up stepping all over them becasue they let me, but it turns me into an asshole and i hate being an asshole. I much prefer a woman that can tell me to STFU when I need to be told, I ain't no insecure macho dipshit that needs to feel superior to his mate.

[Janus]

quiet...mute would be even better.