Would you give it up?

[TheOak01]

ok guys and girl,all opinions welcome here.

I met this girl about a month ago through friends,we have been seeing each other and I can definately see this getting serious. we have talked alot,she knows I lift and take obscence amounts of supps and the topic came up of ephedrine and caffiene,she was against that pretty well right out,then asked me if I ever did steroids,I was honest said I had, when in actual fact Im on right now but she didnt ask that so I didnt tell her.

but my question is,if you were with someone who was dead set against steroid use would you give it up and continue to train natty?

btw she isnt some stupid bimbo who is brainwashed by the media shes actually a vet and knows quite a bit about this sort of stuff so I do value her opinion even though ive been juicing for a few years and not had any issues.

but I do know if I continue to use and then she finds out later and that ive been lying to her it will be over right away no questions asked as she sees it as a drug.

kinda stuck here guys

[Reverend Satan]

Offer to educate her. If she declines then cut her loose.

It isn't even about the anabolic steroid use. If she refuses to learn about anabolic steroids then that is a sign of things to come. It is basically a test to find out if you are dating a know-it-all ***** or a woman who seeks to educate herself in order to be a better partner to you.

Trust me. Been there. Done that.

[TheOak01]

thing is she has a medical view of it and wont change that for my information,know what I mean bud.

cant really change a docs opinion

[Gator_Mclusky]

Explain to her youve researched big time, you know what youre doing and your very careful. Very simple....try to make as little of an issue about it as possible...

good luck,

Gator

[TheOak01]

we tried that and she just wouldnt hear it so i let it go,just dont think i should hide it i could go either way with it

[Voodoo]

you are set that she won't accept it.
if you are fairly sure that this is something you will continue to do and that if she ever found out it could spell disaster, I say let her go.
She doesn't deserve the lies, and you don't deserve to be with someone who is not accepting of your lifestyle.

There are plenty of fish out in the sea, especially because you have not referenced the possibility of her being "the one".
So, if you are not even at that stage in your life... NEXT.

[Gator_Mclusky]

Originally Posted by Voodoo

you are set that she won't accept it.
if you are fairly sure that this is something you will continue to do and that if she ever found out it could spell disaster, I say let her go.
She doesn't deserve the lies, and you don't deserve to be with someone who is not accepting of your lifestyle.

There are plenty of fish out in the sea, especially because you have not referenced the possibility of her being "the one".
So, if you are not even at that stage in your life... NEXT.

I agree.....if its a fairly new relationship then move on. We lead a different lifestyle and like Voo mentioned, honesty is of the utmost importance in any relationship as you know and if she cant accept it.....you may wanna cut ties before things get too serious and your use creates a big prollem.

JMHO but If a girl cant accept me for who I am and what do I want with her?

Gator

[TheOak01]

well I know im not gonna juice forever,and we are both looking to settle down,shes older,wants kids in the next few years kinda thing and I said id give it up when I was gonna have kids anyways.

not saying I plan on it or who knows where we will be in a year or two from now but if thats an option then Id be giving it up anyway.

I think ill finish this cycle under the radar and if shes asks I wont lie,then stay off,I dont use much anyways,maybe once a year for 10 weeks so I dont see why I cant go natty,its not like im dead set on using forever

[Mr.X]

if you can't educate her
get rid of her

You can't live with someone who's unsupportive of your lifestyle...I couldn't live hiding a damn test shot from my girl , don't know how anyone can...

[Reverend Satan]

Originally Posted by TheOak01

thing is she has a medical view of it and wont change that for my information,know what I mean bud.

cant really change a docs opinion

What's her "medical view" and how did she reach that view?

If she was truly educated then she should have no problem with you using reasonable amounts of AAS. If her medical view is what has been told to her instead of what she found through reasonable, responsible research then she is doing nothing more than using an appeal to authority argument which is lazy and dishonest.