Rats Whats Going On Thread

[dagar]

Jeeez Heidi, you got to get the hell out of there. It's hard enough to deal with our own sh*t in life, to have to babysit others is wrong. I commend you for helping out but then they become to reliant on you and never try to do things themselves. remember, your needs and sanity come first.

[Rat]

I dated a woman that was bipolar.... quite interesting....

I never knew who I had on a date with me....

[FlirtfromHell]

Originally Posted by dagar

Jeeez Heidi, you got to get the hell out of there. It's hard enough to deal with our own sh*t in life, to have to babysit others is wrong. I commend you for helping out but then they become to reliant on you and never try to do things themselves. remember, your needs and sanity come first.

Thanks Dagar. I know I can't babysit her, and she knows as well. One of the reasons she comes to me is because she knows I will be flat out honest with her and tell her like it is. I know she doesn't have too many people in her life that will do that, most try to hide things from her, so she doesn't get overly anxious. Her mother, her real sister and I are the only ones that will be honest, then tell her why she shouldn't worry herself to death over it. Like giving her the thoughts to process the entire situation. I used to thnk her mother was so mean to her cause she'd tell her something then say that's how it is, you can't change it so suck it up, or something to that effect. I learned that is pretty much how you have to be with her to keep her mind straight.

She doesn't bother me too much, and she knows I won't let her walk all over me. Today when she was here she told me her and her boyfriend (also bi-polar, but self medicates with marijuana and alcohol) were fighting and she thought her and the kids would be kicked out. I flat out told her there is no way she can stay here, I just can't do it. She knows in her heart her mother would never let her be homeless, but her mother tells her she can't go there either. That's to help her try to make the situation work on her own, it's the only way to get her thinking about possible solutions.

[paul_22]

dager have you told your daughters about me yet??? i have made a list of my qualities and what i look for in a women .. i could email you it ? to show them

[dagar]

My daughters are not women, they are babies. Right now they have boyfriends who treat them right. You'll have to wait until one of them f*cks up.

[FlirtfromHell]

I finally got my tired ass in the shower... didn't help.

*sigh*

I'm thinking tuna in lettuce wraps for lunch, anybody hungry?

[paul_22]

i'll take 3 ideih .... dagar me and you could be golf buddies and i wanna wait till im married to do the business ... we could train toigether and juice together and play golf then ahave a meal with the daughters god damm it help me out here

[FlirtfromHell]

Originally Posted by paul_22

i'll take 3 ideih .... dagar me and you could be golf buddies and i wanna wait till im married to do the business ... we could train toigether and juice together and play golf then ahave a meal with the daughters god damm it help me out here

They're ready, come & get'em.

Dagar - you have to give him credit, he's persistent.

[dagar]

I'll think about it. What's the matter, no women over there?

[paul_22]

i bet you see a whole different toyour daughter when im around ... she will constantly have a smile on her face ... can i call you dad?