Rats Whats Going On Thread

[Gator_Mclusky]

Originally Posted by FlirtfromHell

Just another side of town for now, I can't afford anything else and I just have to get out of this hell hole.

Im happy for you.

[FlirtfromHell]

Originally Posted by Rat

after you move, Para and I could stop by for a "fire" sale...


We'd bring Gator to help with the fire.....

I'm in a bit of a bind.. I feel bad not giving this guy some kinda notice cause his mortgage is due.. but I'm afraid if I tell him my life will be hell until I can leave.. I really wanted to just pack up and be gone while he was at work one day.. but now I don't know what to do.. anyone??

[FlirtfromHell]

Originally Posted by Gator_Mclusky

Im happy for you.

Thanks.. it's not really what I wanted but it's a safe place and this time I know they're good people and they've already helped me tremendously in the last couple of weeks.

[Rat]

If you feel its a threat to you, then leave in the middle of the night, so to speak.

From the stories you've told us, this joker only deserves to have his girlfriend spoken too....

[FlirtfromHell]

His ex wife you mean? You are right, but I'd rather just walk away then cause more drama. I'm already screwing him on a good portion of his mortgage payment.

I am worried that if I leave in the middle of the day, while no one is home he will call non-stop and try to find me and cause trouble. I never signed any written agreements or anything and pay month to month so legally they have nothing.

[Gator_Mclusky]

Are you going to have any roommates?

[Rat]

well, if you just disappear......

[Spook]

Walk away from all drama. Drama only brings negative energy into our lives and we do not need that to drag us down. The main thing in life is to avoid drama and do nothing to draw drama to you...just steer clear of it. The less drama that we have in our lives the less diversions that we have so that we can always better ourselves.

[FlirtfromHell]

Originally Posted by Gator_Mclusky

Are you going to have any roommates?

Yes, but I've spent lots of time with them and they're great people. A friend of mine lives there and takes care of his parents, they're in their late 80's. They have a 3 bedroom home and I will be in my own room, rent is free as long as I help out around the house with what I can. His mom is 89, so I will help her with cooking and cleaning, laundry etc.. This was her idea when she heard about the situation I am in now. They live on a better part of town, and there are many more possibilities for jobs for me. These are wonderful people, so much so I thought it was too good to be true. lol.

Originally Posted by Rat

well, if you just disappear......

That's what I was thinking.. but I still worry about running into them or them being dumb enough to look for me.

[FlirtfromHell]

Originally Posted by Spook

Walk away from all drama. Drama only brings negative energy into our lives and we do not need that to drag us down. The main thing in life is to avoid drama and do nothing to draw drama to you...just steer clear of it. The less drama that we have in our lives the less diversions that we have so that we can always better ourselves.

I try to avoid it, but I seem to be a magnetic when it comes to drama. It's attracted to me and I can't stand it.