Not Just Another Jerk

[dagar]

I'm still waiting for the definative explanation of what jerk means regarding this thread.

[Required_1]

Originally Posted by dagar

I'm still waiting for the definative explanation of what jerk means regarding this thread.

In regards to acting like an imbecile and asshole, treating her like crap, self centered, callous, blah blah.

[dagar]

So you mean a person who suffers from insecurity. Feel sorry for them......or laugh at them. People like this can only feel good about themselves if they are knocking someone else down. Eventually they get what they deserve. As long as what they are doing doesn't affect me or more importantly, my family, I ignore them. If it doe's....well then it's time for a little reality check.

[FlirtfromHell]

Originally Posted by Required_1

You put that together rather nicely.

I heard something once that I've tried to remember ever since ... "No one is perfect but everyone is perfect for someone."


Trust me its a little discouraging being a woman looking for a good man, there seem to be more of the jerks out there.

[paramuscle]

I prefer jerks personally.................I like jerk , asshole tough guys.............in fact, those are my favorites. I had one the other night that was a BADASS..........wow, this guy was mouthy as hell............until we were alone. He turned and raised one finger and said, "you Motherfu" and then he was on the floor, on his bacjk and my knee was in his throat..............after that he didn't want to be a badass no more.

I hate the weak ones, I despise cowards, and I do think the herd needs thinning. People who are hateful to women usually have no other outlet for their emotions are are very weak people. Man, I have met so many of these fools, thes tough people, the jerks, the "bad boys". They may be attractive, they may make you feel needed but there is one thing they can never do and that is .................make you feel safe.

When you get them alone and there are no windows to cry out from, they always back up................always.




~PM

[Martano666]

While I understand why you think women only want to date assholes, I don't agree that it is true. I have been with my common law wife for over 6 years and I am 25. She and I are best friends. I will admit that I can be a jerk to others, but my wife is my life and her happiness is more important to me than ANYTHING else. (except for my dinner)
My brother is 28 years old and has NEVER been with a women simply because he is a 'nice guy'. He isn't aggressive enough in attracting women, and get's anxiety while trying to 'flirt' so he usually scares women off by saying the wrong things. In reality, the women that you say "prefer jerks" are really just blind when it comes to finding good men. You must continue to be yourself like FlirtFromHell said.







Joking about the dinner thing.

[Martano666]

BTW Paramuscle.....what did you put in that guys throat???

[Required_1]

In relation to myself, I am not a jerk, nerd, weak, asshole, mr.Nice guy. I certainly am not a wimp either. I grew up in hell's kitchen , been out on my own since I was 10 yrs old. I am very wise, both humanely and academically. Where I am coming from is that a true friend, a real person, altho not impossible to find, is rare and far and beyond. And in relation to females, I refuse to treat them w/lack of respect and concern to their feelings and ideals and their character, I refuse to treat them like they are dirt and way below me. Everything is so debased in today's society..... Yet I agree, that there are women that definitely want to be treated like shit, those I avoid. Would u want to be permanently hooked up with a woman that prefered to be treated like she was nothing?

[dagar]

Is this a general observation that guys are jerks? Or were you attracted to someone who prefered what you deem a jerk? Most guys are phonys. They are so insecure in their own skin that they act like assh*oles as a protective shield. I am a straight up, no bs, tell it like it is type of guy and appreciate being treated the same way. If you don't like the way I am, go f*ck yourself. Like I said earlier, if the actions of an ass*hole don't directy affect you, ignore them. And Martano, he put his knee on his throat as a way of saying continue to be an assh*le and your breathing will be compromised.

[FlirtfromHell]

Originally Posted by Required_1

In relation to myself, I am not a jerk, nerd, weak, asshole, mr.Nice guy. I certainly am not a wimp either. I grew up in hell's kitchen , been out on my own since I was 10 yrs old. I am very wise, both humanely and academically. Where I am coming from is that a true friend, a real person, altho not impossible to find, is rare and far and beyond. And in relation to females, I refuse to treat them w/lack of respect and concern to their feelings and ideals and their character, I refuse to treat them like they are dirt and way below me. Everything is so debased in today's society..... Yet I agree, that there are women that definitely want to be treated like shit, those I avoid. Would u want to be permanently hooked up with a woman that prefered to be treated like she was nothing?

We have very similar pasts.

I know some girls that always want to complain about being treated crappy but when the suggestions comes up that they should just leave that's unheard of. I will never understand why they don't leave or keep going back when they do. I'd much rather be alone and independent than be treated like shit.