Is it normal to feel this way?

[Opi]

Originally Posted by dagar

The key to a healthy, long lasting relationship is.......................ALCOHOL. Whenever that sea hag of mine starts firing off her verbal darts, I have a couple, go into my he man woman haters room in the back and that loud shrill nagging voice becomes a low level annoyance, like having a fly in the room. Seriously Opi, keep a positive outlook, pursue bettering yourself and good things will come.

HAhaha I almost choked on my shake, I thought you were being all serious at first... I'm 110% into bettering myself now, I feel like I neglected my own life the past year or two by trying to make someone else happy when i wasn't happy myself

[Opi]

bumping this for a buddy of mine

[Rat]

Time heals all wounds, doesn't son ?

[Opi]

Originally Posted by Rat

Time heals all wounds, doesn't son ?

It really does, my buddy just had a break up with his woman of 6 years or something crazy long like that, It's hard to explain because I know how it is. Just took me a while to get over it, I'm happier now having learned what I want and what I don't want in a relationship a little better.

[Rat]

Sadly, its a lesson we all learn... it sucks to go thru it.

I'm glad your better now.

[madruga]

i'm only 2 months removed from a 4 year long relationship. never cheated on her, loved (and i still do) her more than anything in the world, but shit man, we're young. there are others out there. i think that my old gal is the best girl in the world, i don't think i'll ever find one that compares to her in beauty, brains, or heart, but you can't worry about that. you can't do anything about it, so you can't worry about it. that's all it comes down to.

pm if you ever need to talk...i think we might have a couple things in common... minus our opinions on secondhand smoke. we'll just not bring that up...

[madruga]

but oh yeah...congrats on how far you have come. it takes a real man to overcome depression. trust me, i've been through it.